Casual Sex Dating

Prior to my EuroSex Tour 2009, I was bored one Sunday afternoon so decided to try putting another casual dating advert in my favorite online classifieds site.  For the first time in this advert I was more explicit in my description of what I wanted to do.  In comparison with some of the other adverts it was quite tame, but I was careful not to come across as a weido, timewaster or just plain desperate.

Fussy about body Particulars

I specified I wanted a black or mixed race girl with big boobs big booty and hairy pussy and that I loved to fuck from behind doggy style while grabbing her arse.  I did not know what kind of response I would get, if any in fact.  I dont know what it is with me and ethnic black babes, Im just not so sexually attracted to their white sisters.  I find black women are more promiscious and up for NSA. I know there are alot of British white sluts out there too but for most their attitude stinks and is a complete turnoff for me. One week passed and I got two replies. The first one Juliane was in her early thirties black professional woman from West London.  She sent me a couple of normal everyday pictures of her and I found her very attractive, she was not fat but well built and I could only imagine that underneath her clothing she was very curvacious.

Doing the Groundwork

We chatted on the phone and I must admit at first it did not go too well, where she began accusing me of not asking questions about her.  I was a little surprised as in my ad I had made it very clear this was all about a sexual encounter.  We chatted on MSN where she told me she love giving blowjobs and really enjoyed guys cumming all over her face and tits!  She also loved to be fucked doggy style and loved her tits being sucked hard. 

As I was about to leave for my trip we arranged to meet up when I returned, she was a little dissapointed by this as no doubt she was on the boil and wanted it now.  But assuming she was still single we would meet up on my return.  Every so often I would get naughty texts from her where she really was keen to know what I wanted to do to her.  As I was returning she sent me a nude picture of her on the mobile.  God I wanted to meet up and fuck this girl.

The Venue

We lived quite far apart and she was not willing to travel to my place, hers was out of bounds as she was sharing.  It was obvious if I had of lived nearby she would have travelled to me. Eventually we agree to meet up one evening in Clapham after work and I would book a hotel nearby and we would go there after having a drink.All day at work I had a semi hard on and could not get this black slut out of my mind.  She tell me her pussy was trimmed and her ass was as good as her tits.  The night before I had booked up a hotel near Clapham Junction, the cheapest I could find at the Travelodge for £65 a night.  I took the gamble of paying up front as she had seen many pictures of me so did not think anything could go wrong.

The meeting

We met in the street, I liked what I saw but her immediate look back at me was not good.  We went into a wine bar and I could tell she was cagey and it was proving hard to relax.  At a few points the conversation began to flow but it was hard work.  I sensed she did not want to be there.  Eventually I asked her what she thought now she had met me? 

No Chemistry

She replied there was no chemistry on her part, and it was a shame as she had been excited all day about meeting up.  She asked me what I felt?  She was very curvy, She had massive firm tits with a low cut blouse on.  She was not the prettiest girl but oozing sex.  It was not going to happen though.  She said I looked like the guy in the pictures but she not feel anything.  So that was that we left and i felt dejected and let down.

Conclusion

In hindsight she was just a timewaster and only enjoyed the fantasy of being fucked by a complete stranger but could not go through with it.  Or maybe she hoped when she did meet the guy, there would be something so charming about him that her defences would dissolve, Carey Grant or someone.

Life goes one

Back online I got chatting to Bella from Surrey, Now this girl was damn sexy on MSN and wanted me to send pics of my cock etc. 


She was into Sado Masochism though and other kinky fetish stuff which I am really not into. I just explained that I would worship her body and lick her pussy out for an hour if she would let me.  She seemed well up for some of that but she has stopped replying.Frustrating this online casual dating can be sometimes, you can get so close and yet you are so far away from what you really want.  But one must persevere,  Im chatting to another one now and she is close to giving in and coming over for a fuckfest.  But its taking some time, I have to convince her she is not going to be just another cum recepticle or one night stand.  I dont feel like this with her, its really one to one.  I just really want to fuck this woman and not just any woman.  It could happen tonight….

Amsterdam Red Light District

On my last day in Amsterdam and the last day of my EuroSex tour I wanted to have a morning fuck with one of the lady redlights of Amsterdam.  I walked around and come about 10:30am alot of girls were beginning their day shift of sucking and fucking.   It would seem quite a few other Amsterdam sex tourists had the same idea as quite a few horny guys were walking around too.

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Bulgarian Hooker

Down the small allys there was this very cute slim young woman that was the best I had seen. She opened the door and she was aged 20 and from Varna in Bulgaria, she has worked in Golden Sands and Sofia before. She was hot, slim but with a nice sized pair of tits and curvy little bottom. She had a tanned complexion, long thick dark hair with blond highlights, beautiful big brown eyes and a gorgeous smile.  You cant help noticing her if your walking about.

We went upstairs to where she was renting a very large comfy room, she had all the sexual Paraphenalia hanging on the walls, whips, uniforms, you name it, it was there.  For 15 minutes it was going to be 50e for suck and fuck with different positions.  I went just for that as I was horny and did not think I would have a problem this morning trying to cum within time, not with this hot little number anyway. She realed off extra services she could offer, but she spoke too fast to really understand her, something about wanting to lick her pussy, extending the time to 30 minutes was going to be 100 euros.

We stripped off and she had a fully shaved pussy. I lay on the double bed and she got me hard then very skillfully put a condom on, she then began to lick and suck.  Generally I think a CBJ is a waste of time, but I used my imagination, and watched her as she watched me, her eyes were beautiful and her tongue very pink as she licked and sucked. 

Time is Money

Then it was time to fuck, she turned round and over for the doggy style position. I entered her from behind and began to fuck her.  Again there were mirrors on the wall and this heightened the experience, to see this young fit body of hers on all fours with me fucking her from behind.  She then sat on top of me, and then I wanted to get on top of her but she not want to do this position. She say multiple positions is only two positions.  So it was back to doggy.

Time was running out and I was becoming aware of it, I wanted to cum, she wanted me too, I was in the rythm but then she started to move too and it spoiled my concentration.  Just as I started to cum, time was up and she pulled away.  A little frustrating for me, dont know if it was a tactic of hers to do this to get you to pay for another 15 minutes. Who knows?  But once you are in there rooms and paid up front the girl is in control and pulls all the strings, you got too hope she gives you a fair deal.  This is really not everyones idea of mongering.

We get dressed and she tells me she only does the dayshift until 6pm because too many bullshitters about at night, too many drunks etc. Yes there are some classy girls working in the daytime, but there are at night too.  She was very keen to get back into her window and kept saying ‘time is money’  I reckon she is not in the window for long before someone else is led up her stairs.  She must be making a fortune.

That evening I head down the Rembrantspien for something different.  Only one strip bar down here now called Selena’s bar, the rest have closed down. In 1985 this was the first street I came across and back then there was a good 5 or 6 bars to choose from.  The girls inside were old fat and rough, I drank my beer and left.  This bar will not survive much longer.  The other entertainment areas are the Leidseplein and Dam Square but nothing P4P there.

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Amsterdam Lap Dancing

I had a good walk around the red light district and then decided to go into a lap dancing club at the end of one of the allyways called ‘La Vie en Proost’ on the Bethlehemsteeg near Warmoestraat.  I thought I would give a try, 5e to enter where they stamp your hand so you can come and go through the night as you please.  Cool and comfortable inside with some very nice topless girls strutting their stuff up and down the bar.

Beers were 7e and a lapdance was going to be 10e. I thought I would join in the fun and chose this girl from South America to come and sit on my lap, where she rubbed her big naturual brown firm DD breasts in my face, I even gave them a little suck, but she said ‘no’ I was not allowed to do that. Naughty boy!

Later at the bar another girl from South America sat with me, she was from Peru.  She was cute too, they all seem to have big tits in there.  The barmaid serves you with her tits out.  This girl said she works in Spain in the summer, but during the winter works Amsterdams clubs, she tried London before, but she had to pay the clubs too much money to work there with no guarantee she will make enough to cover it.  If its a busy night not a problem.

She talk about her friend wanting to goto swingers events and she wants to try a threesome with two men and anal sex.  Im not sure if she was just telling me the kind of things she knew I liked to hear, but I was enjoying her company and paid for a glass of champagne at 16e a glass.  Alot cheaper than the bottles and there were some guys at the bar buying these for their chosen lady. 

She had to leave to dance, I promised I would pay for a dance with her, but alas I had run out of cash, was feeling a little bloated from the beer and decided to call it a night.  Not a bad club to get you in the mood but will leave you at least 50e lighter. 

Return to Amsterdam

Arrived in Amsterdam Central station having taken a train from Cologne in Germany using the DB Bahn German train operator costing 29e that I had booked up online prior to the trip.  The whole EuroSex 2009 tour had been booked up online, all train journeys and all hotel bookings. I think its better this way else in anyone location you can get lazy and decide to stay put.  Having booked it all up online and having paid for reservations gives you the impetus to see your original plan through.

It was early afternoon in Amsterdam and a bright sunny day with a little chill in the air.  I was staying at the Old Nickel for 45 euros a night.  The Old Nickel is a comfortable friendly little typical dutch hotel/pub just across the road from centraal station on Nieuwe Brugsteeg and a 2 minute walk from the center of Amsterdams Red Light District.  Im told as I check in, the door shuts at 1am but the bar stays open till 4am, between 4am and 7am there will be no one to let me in, so you need to get back before 4am.  Sounded good to me, I very rarely last beyond midnight.

It was over 20 years since I was last in Amsterdam, back then yes I was interested in sex but was also a heavy pot smoker.  For me this is where my Mongering hobby began.  Before the trip I was wondering maybe this is also where it would end with maybe me becoming disullioned with P4P as it becomes much more about taking your money with a big a pleasure deficit.  In the Brussels Red Light district liasons a few days before I had been left very discontented with the experience, but an experience it was all the same. Better than spending ones life continually in the tedium of the day to day grind.

I dropped my gear off, had a beer and headed towards the red light district which is centered around the Oudezijds Achterburgwal. The day shift was in full swing, a right mixture of old, young, trannies, latinas, blacks, eastern europeans and of course some Dutch. 

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The Banana bar was still there along with all the sex cinema’s, peep shows, sex shops and the Bulldog coffeeshops. Iv done all these seedy places before on my first trips here and it was not the sort of entertainment I wanted to indulge in this time round.

What I did notice more this time were lots more tourists, big groups of them everywhere with their paid guide, Asians, Europeans, old and young, after all Amsterdam is a world famous sin city, the red light district being its major attraction. 

Good business for the guides no doubt but not sure for the working girls as possible punters shy away with such a bunch of inquisitive onlookers all the time.  There was also some building work going on in a few allys, im told the RLD of Amsterdam is shrinking as the authorities crack down, a street is now being converted to fashion boutiques. 

Cannabis Culture

What has multiplied since I was last there though is coffee shops where you can buy some weed sit down and smoke it, they are everywhere now.  With these comes groups of young kids high on its drug with Amsterdam I suppose being their Mecca,  a place to come at least once a year and worship Marajhuana then pretend to laugh at the world around them between breaks of extreme fear and Paranoia.  When you see some of its older casualties sat around Im glad I grew out of this Cannabis culture.  Id much rather they prune back this sin rather than the sex.  If you give up pussy then you may as well give up on life.   A few of the attractive girls I had a little chat with and most were quoting 50 euros for 15 minutes and multiple orgasms - oops I mean positions. 

I returned later that night and had a good walk around all the streets and little allyways that seem to abound around this area, you can spend a couple of hours just window shopping.  Its worth making a few tours around as some girls would have been working previously with there curtians closed.

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I noticed another nice very attractive dark skinned looking girl near the church a little off the main drag called Lange Niezel I think. She opened the door and waved me over. She told me she was from the Dominican Republic and quoted me 30 euros for suck and fuck with multiple positions as I liked.  I decided to enter as she had a nice manner about her and I did not think she would fuck me around once inside.

Dominican Girl

She was very pretty with distinctive mixed race black-latina looks about her with a nice curvy figure.  She stripped off and her pussy was fully shaved.  She kept her bra on but I knew what was coming if I asked her to remove that - it was going to be another 20e at least, see this experience is now paying off.  I was horny but had also had a few beers during that afternoon and evening and wondered if again I would be able to cum?

She sat on the bed in front of me and played with my cock and balls for a minute or two, I got hard and she slipped on a condom and then began to suck and lick my cock.  I got my mind into gear and with a little imagination just enjoyed it for what it was - a CBJ.  She seemed to know the precise moment for when I was ready to fuck, she rubbed some jelly into her pussy and then with her back to me bent over the bed and offered me to enter her from behind.  It felt good and with the mirror on the walls I could watch me and her fucking from both sides which definately heightened the experience. I could also not help noticing my belly too and I seriously need to get down the gym!  Apart from this it was definately the PSE.

Again at the precise moment she seemed to know when it was ready to change positions, she lay on the bed opened her legs and I fucked her missionary style.  She was making the right noises and pretended to be enjoying it, who knows maybe she was?  Within a few minutes I had completely emptied by balls deep inside her.. well into the condom.

We got dressed and I could not help noticing a bin full of tissues, a good days earnings for her no doubt.  I wanted to take a picture of her from behind in the room for an extra 10e but her reply was ‘no way’.  We said our goodbyes and I left it at that.  A good fuck actually but you have to finish within 15 minutes or else pay double.  Im told these girls hire these little rooms out for around 150e a day depending where they are but they typically make 500e some alot more.

Pasha Cologne

From Brussels I took the train to Cologne in Germany with Thayls

On my last evening in Cologne I decided to visit Pascha’s located on HornStraBe.  A taxi from the city centre to Pascha is approx 10e.  Entry into Pascha is 5e for this you get soft drinks free from the bar inside. So you need to factor in this extra 25e to get to and then inside the place, thats before you get to drop your pants.

You cannot walk to Pascha from the city centre, its too far.  It is actually located on the outskirts of a pretty rough looking German housing estate.  You can get a train there to Nipples and its only a short walk from there.  Directly opposite Pascha is another brothel called Das Bordell.  Both building’s must have once been blocks of flats or something, cannot believe they were purposely built for their current function?

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I arrived around 8pm that evening, two sterotypical looking German skinheads were on the door, all dressed in black, I slid my 5e note into the machine and passed through the turnstyle.

Inside its dimly lit, each floor has a couple of corridors, each corridor a dozen or so rooms.  The whores stand at the doors brandishing there wares and nodding you in.  You walk around and if you see one that you like, you enter negotiations with her. 

Well over half of the doors were closed, talking to one of the girls, she tells me they are simply not being rented out by anyone, so there is not a big waiting queue of girls wanting to work here.  As you walk around you pass other punters taking a wander too.  Apparently there are 120 rooms in total and Pascha is supposed to be Europes biggest brothel.

It would seem some attempt has been made to organise the girls onto a floor dependent on their race and your niche.  You have Asians, Blacks, Latinos and local or white girls. Some of the girls are pretty rough others not so bad.  On the seventh floor are trannys, I wanted to have a look but no one was working on that floor this evening.

On the ground floor is one of those FKK clubs, but reports have it, its a bit expensive inside and not that great, a bit of a tourist trap apparently, although out here tourists would not happen on this place by chance.

On my way up the floors, the Latinos were scoring highly, one in particular pulled me into her room, usual ‘fuck and suck’ was 25e.  She was wiggling her tongue at me and undoing my trousers.  She said she would do BBBJ for 50e.  I really fancied some of this, has been a long time since I had had a good suck and she looked like she would do a good job.  She was maturer with massive round tits and big round butt but quite slim waist.  She was originally from Columbia.

I worked my way up the rest of the floors and then made my way back to Columbian, lucky for me she was still there and not taken yet.  I agreed on the 50e for a BBBJ and entered the room and she closed the door.  Inside the room was dimly lit, poorely ventilated and too hot, even had the smell of used tissues, not ideal.

We both undress and I lay on the bed, she then attempted to put a condom on, but i say ‘no’ 50e!’, ok, she then started to give me a really good suck and lick.  After a while she ask me if i wanted to fuck, but I declined, this time I just wanted a good blowjob. 

She was going through all the motions, wanking me into her mouth, wiggling her tongue around the end and I was fully erect and enjoying it.  Its not quite as good though as those rare girls maybe you meet once or twice in your life who really do enjoy sucking cock and taking a load of cum in their mouth, down their throat or all over their face, making sure every last drop is out, leaving you empty and totally satisfied.

She continued to suck and lick and wank me off and I began to cum in her mouth, she pulled away and went Yuk! and that was it, I would say only a third came out.  In the toilet she washed my cock for me and even was wanking me off in the sink.  Not bad, but not great as I was not totally empty.  I had a coke in the bar and walked across the road to Das Bordell.

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In Das Bordell you do not pay to enter, its not so well kept and did not seem to be so many women working in there.  But there was again a couple of really cute young Latinas and a few blacks that were worth a look.

A few taxis are waiting outside and I took one back to the city centre. Its different, ill say that although not that disimilar to window shopping in any other European RLD. 

Unfortunately I never made it to any of the FKK clubs like Samya’s etc, these places are usually alot further out of the city centres so this is still on my list of things to do… Well worth a visit though if you are in Cologne.

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